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Jul 19, 2020
1 min

Workplace domestic abuse

Today I submitted my evidence to the Department for Business, Energy & Industrial Strategy on the subject of domestic abuse in the workplace. #domesticabusebill #domesticabuse #domesticviolence #relationships #coercivecontrol #blogger #vlogger #blog #politics #police #Youarenotalone #DABill #jessphillips #borisjohnson #equality #inclusion

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Robert S Wells @ DABS

Jun 27, 2020
1 min

A response from The House Of Commons

The second response from my local MP on the issue of domestic abuse. Please do feel free to leave your comments below. #domesticabuse #domesticviolence #abuse #government #law #police #politics #blogger #vlogger #relationships #mentoo

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Robert S Wells @ DABS

Jun 13, 2020
1 min

BBC COMPLAINT

We made a complaint directly to the new Director General of the BBC, Mr Tim Davie about the way that the BBC reports on domestic abuse as a gendered crime. https://www.bbc.co.uk/mediacentre/latestnews/2020/tim-davie-director-general #domesticabuse #domesticviolence #coercivecontrol #relationships #blog #blogger #vlog #police #politics #mentoo

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The Domestic Abuse Bill Scrutiny Committee

Robert S Wells @ DABS

Jun 13, 2020
1 min

The Domestic Abuse Bill Scrutiny Committee

If you want your voice to be heard, it's absolutely essential that you write to the committee today. #domesticabusebill #domesticabuse #domesticviolence #relationships #coercivecontrol #blogger #vlogger #blog #politics #police

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Robert S Wells @ DABS

Jun 13, 2020
1 min

Give your evidence now!

Write to the committee today and get your voice heard. #domesticabusebill #domesticabuse #domesticviolence #relationships #coercivecontrol #politics #blogger #vlogger #blog

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Robert S Wells @ DABS

Jun 13, 2020
1 min

No Prime Minister!

Support The Bridging The Gap Project by writing to The Prime Minister and letting him know how damaging his video was, after The Hidden Harms Summit. Please feel free to use this letter as a template. #domesticabuse #domesticviolence #blog #blogger #vlogger #coercivecontrol #youarenotalone #politics #relationships #PrimeMinister #calltoaction

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Robert S Wells @ DABS

May 13, 2020
1 min

CLARE'S LAW

Hello my fabulous social media friends. Today I want to introduce you to a documentary produced by Chloe Rose who is a student journalist at the centre for journalism, an intern at KMTV Kent and a reporter at the voice of Kent. The documentary is called - Unmasking Abusers: Protecting the legacy of Clare Wood and Investigates how well Clare’s Law works, in offering better protection to victims of domestic abuse. I want to say a huge thank you to Chloe for the opportunity t

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Robert S Wells @ DABS

Mar 30, 2020
1 min

COVID -19 & DOMESTIC ABUSE

It is now an accepted fact that the covid - 19 lockdown across the world, has caused a huge rise in incidents of domestic abuse. As victims are ever more isolated and pressure builds, the abuser takes advantage of the lockdown to inflict more abuse. YOU ARE NOT ALONE. Please see our advice on staying safe at home, https://55930de1-5f8d-41e7-b276-2cdc1745882b.filesusr.com/ugd/5feb8a_abd9bc375c9c48ffbd66521ede2e168b.pdf or if you're a key worker suffering from domestic abuse, s

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Robert S Wells @ DABS

Feb 15, 2020
1 min

Domestic Abuse - Safety Plan.

Andrew Pain is a TEDx Speaker, online entrepreneur, high performance coach, time mastery nerd and dad to 5 kids, He writes about: productivity, self development and overcoming domestic abuse. After writing this fabulous article: https://medium.com/@andrew.a.pain/exiting-domestic-abuse-its-not-easy-but-it-is-possible-39069ea2966, he posed the following question. I thought that Andrew's blog was fantastic and really nailed it, (as do all of his articles, you should check them o

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ONLINE ABUSE & STALKING - PROTECT YOURSELF.

Robert S Wells @ DABS

Feb 2, 2020
1 min

ONLINE ABUSE & STALKING - PROTECT YOURSELF.

Leaving an abusive relationship is the most dangerous time. If you or your children are using any item that is connected to the internet, such as a mobile phone, or your car has an inbuilt connection to the internet, you can be tracked and hacked. It is essential that you check the settings and passwords on all of your devices and the devices of your children, especially if your abuser ever had access. You can find more details on cyber protection here: https://serocu.police.

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Robert S Wells @ DABS

Jan 21, 2020
1 min

Ministry Of Defence

I was delighted to receive this today. Back in November 2019, I was invited to speak at the MOD on the subject of domestic abuse against men and domestic abuse in the workplace. The event was to launch the "Defence wide Domestic Abuse Awareness Campaign." It was attended by several support organisations, military and non-military, as well as survivors. Alongside representatives from the RAF and Navy Families’ Federations and the Military Welfare Colonels, were Mr Chris Green

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Robert S Wells @ DABS

Jan 7, 2020
2 min

Part 2 - Misandry at the Commission.

A huge thank you to those of you that have read, responded and commented on my last post about misandry at The Equality And Human Rights Commission. Further to my last post, I thought that you may be interested in emails between myself and a Commission representative In July of 2019. I wrote to the Commission via their online contact form. I was curious about the wording, that they had included with statistics that they were quoting, so I requested the source. You can see scr

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Robert S Wells @ DABS

Jan 5, 2020
4 min

MISANDRY AT THE EQUALITY AND HUMAN RIGHTS COMMISSION.

Domestic Abuse Business Support (DABS) is passionate about supporting all victims of domestic abuse in the workplace, regardless of gender, sexual orientation and ethnicity. Why is this important? It's important because domestic abuse knows no boundaries. Domestic abuse can and does affect anyone. It is illegal and frankly inhuman, to treat a victim differently because of their gender, race or sexual orientation, all of which, are "protected categories" under U.K. law. Why am

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Robert S Wells @ DABS

Dec 15, 2019
1 min

MOD GUEST SPEAKER

I was honoured to be the guest speaker at the MOD main building, for their, "Domestic Abuse Awareness Campaign Launch." Where I gave a talk on domestic abuse against men. This event was attended by the U.K.s largest domestic abuse organisations, as well as MOD staff, so I was incredibly flattered to be selected as the guest speaker. Groups attending included: Women's Aid. Mankind Initiative. Survivors U.K. Women's Trust. Galop. Men's Advice Line. Aurora New Dawn. The Families

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Robert S Wells @ DABS

Dec 8, 2019
1 min

SOLDIER MAGAZINE

As a veteran, I was absolutely delighted to be featured in Soldier Magazine as part of domestic abuse awareness month. With international distribution of approximately 80,000 copies to every base, barracks and theatre of operations, Soldier Magazine are the official magazine of the British Army. As the Army’s primary means of internal communication outside the chain of command, their publication includes a wide selection of not-to-be-missed news, features, sports, reviews and

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More than half a million working women experienced domestic abuse last year.

Robert S Wells @ DABS

Nov 25, 2019
1 min

More than half a million working women experienced domestic abuse last year.

A new report by KPMG highlights the seriousness of the impact that domestic abuse is having in the workplace. It's unfortunate however, that this report ignores an entire gender. Men are also victims of domestic abuse and are also targeted in the workplace. Read the article here. https://metro.co.uk/2019/11/25/more-than-half-a-million-working-women-experienced-domestic-abuse-last-year-11211764/ #domesticabuse #domesticviolence #HR #Business #blog #blogger

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Forces Network Covers Domestic Abuse Against Men

Robert S Wells @ DABS

Nov 24, 2019
1 min

Forces Network Covers Domestic Abuse Against Men

I was delighted to be interviewed again recently, by BFBS Radio for an article on domestic abuse against men and domestic abuse within the Army. You can see the article and listen to the radio interview here: here:https://www.forces.net/stories/domestic-abuse-against-men-danger-facing-thousands-serving-personnel #domesticabuse #domesticviolence #blog #blogger #relationships #military #army #armedforces

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Robert S Wells @ DABS

Nov 24, 2019
1 min

THE ARMY & YOU

Thank you so much to "The Army & You" magazine, that invited me to share my story when they covered domestic abuse and domestic abuse against men, in it's latest edition. #domesticabuse #domesticviolence #blog #blogger #army #armedforces

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Robert S Wells @ DABS

Nov 7, 2019
1 min

GREAT FEEDBACK

#domesticabuse #domesticviolence #blog #blogger #HR #business #relationships

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Robert S Wells @ DABS

Nov 4, 2019
1 min

LET'S END THIS ONE SIDED REPORTING

Domestic abuse is a global issue that affects men and women, yet the media continue to only show one side of the issue. I commend these women for their bravery to speak out and I fully support efforts to protect women and girls, but men and boys deserve a voice as well. https://www.bbc.co.uk/news/topics/c008ql15dvgt/domestic-abuse #domesticabuse #domesticviolence #blog #blogger

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"Respect your fellow human being, treat them fairly, disagree with them honestly, enjoy their friendship, explore your thoughts about one another candidly, work together for a common goal and help one another achieve it. No destructive lies. No ridiculous fears. No debilitating anger." - Bill Bradley

Please help DABS and The Bridging The Gap Project, to support a change in how we all talk about domestic abuse. Let's all come together for the good of all victims, regardless of their gender, religion, ability, sexuality, ethnicity or social and workplace position.