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Robert S Wells @ DABS
- Jun 18, 2020
- 3 min
THE SOCIETAL ABUSE OF MEN
Societal abuse is a form of active abuse, that refers to the disadvantages an individual or group experiences, as a result of unjust social structures. In this case, the group that I’m referring to, is abused men. Particularly, gay, straight, bisexual and trans, male victims of domestic abuse and their children. All categories of societal abuse involve the manipulative control of time, energy, focus and connection between people, groups and organisations, in the service of on
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Robert S Wells @ DABS
- Jun 7, 2020
- 1 min
Women's charity leaders, minimising women's abuse against men.
It is a disgrace for leaders of the two biggest domestic abuse charities in the UK, to dismiss and minimise female perpetrated domestic abuse. #DomesticAbuse #DomesticViolence #YouAreNotAlone #Vlog #Blog #Government #Politics #Covid19 #Menoo #MeToo #Business #Equality #GammaBias #Police #NHS #CoerciveControl #Misandry #WomensAid #RespectUK #Refuge #MankindInitiative #Feminism #ToxicMasculinity #DABS #DomesticAbuseBusinessSupport #Education #Crime #Gaslighting #PTSD #MentalHe
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Robert S Wells @ DABS
- May 28, 2020
- 1 min
When do people become perpetrators?
This week, I produced this video. It was in response to an almost identical video that a serving police officer put out but with one big difference, his was gendered and called, "When did HE become a perpetrator?" It is completely unacceptable for a serving police officer to help to reinforce the negative gender stereotype that men are always the perpetrator and women always the victim. Perpetrators can of course, be male or female. I hope you like the video. Please feel free
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Robert S Wells @ DABS
- May 13, 2020
- 1 min
TODAY I WROTE TO MY MP
Today I wrote to my MP to ask if he will support our, "Bridging The Gap Project," which aims to change the language used when discussing domestic abuse. I believe that gender needs to be removed from the conversation and I explain why, in the letter below. If you feel as strongly as I do about this, please feel free to use this letter as a template, to write to your own MP. You can find your local MP here: https://members.parliament.uk/FindYourMP Thank you for your support. #
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Robert S Wells @ DABS
- Feb 3, 2020
- 1 min
Domestic Abuse Myths
Video N0: 5 There are a lot of myths surrounding domestic abuse, here are just 12 of them. https://youtu.be/aiJyabHJzVs #DomesticAbuse #domesticviolence #RelationshipAdvice #business #HR #hrtraining #humanresources #genderequality #myths
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Robert S Wells @ DABS
- Jan 21, 2020
- 1 min
Ministry Of Defence
I was delighted to receive this today. Back in November 2019, I was invited to speak at the MOD on the subject of domestic abuse against men and domestic abuse in the workplace. The event was to launch the "Defence wide Domestic Abuse Awareness Campaign." It was attended by several support organisations, military and non-military, as well as survivors. Alongside representatives from the RAF and Navy Families’ Federations and the Military Welfare Colonels, were Mr Chris Green
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Robert S Wells @ DABS
- Nov 25, 2019
- 1 min
More than half a million working women experienced domestic abuse last year.
A new report by KPMG highlights the seriousness of the impact that domestic abuse is having in the workplace. It's unfortunate however, that this report ignores an entire gender. Men are also victims of domestic abuse and are also targeted in the workplace. Read the article here. https://metro.co.uk/2019/11/25/more-than-half-a-million-working-women-experienced-domestic-abuse-last-year-11211764/ #domesticabuse #domesticviolence #HR #Business #blog #blogger
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Robert S Wells @ DABS
- Nov 3, 2019
- 2 min
THE INTERNAL THREAT
Terrorism, espionage, cyber threats and - domestic abuse. Terrorism, espionage and cyber threats, are the top three threats to Britain's national security. In 2015 The "Strategic Defence and Security Review," announced £178bn of equipment spending, after analysing the full range of internal and external threats and examining the capabilities needed to counter them. But It's not just countries that spend vast amounts of money on security. Corporations spend millions on bodygua
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Robert S Wells @ DABS
- Oct 26, 2019
- 1 min
IT'S NOT ABOUT US
We can say all we like about what we provide, however, it's what others think that matters. We are absolutely passionate about helping businesses and employees dealing with domestic abuse in the workplace. DABS supports all sufferers and survivors of domestic abuse, regardless of gender, sexuality, religious or ethnic background. However, DABS director, Robert Wells is a passionate advocate for male victims of domestic abuse, due to his own experiences, and often gives free t
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Robert S Wells @ DABS
- Oct 24, 2019
- 1 min
DOMESTIC ABUSE IN THE WORKPLACE A GUIDE FOR EMPLOYERS.
FOR MORE INFORMATION ON OUR DOMESTIC ABUSE SEMINARS AND CREATING A ROBUST DOMESTIC ABUSE POLICY AND GUIDELINES FOR YOUR BUSINESS, PLEASE CONTACT ROBERT: +44 (0) 7853 621303 robert@d-a-b-s.co.uk #domesticabuse #domesticviolence #blogger #blog #relationships #abuse #business #HR
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Robert S Wells @ DABS
- Sep 16, 2019
- 1 min
THE AIM OF DABS
To support employees experiencing and perpetrating domestic abuse, (regardless of gender, sexual orientation or ethnic background) and the businesses that they work for, against the very real threat, of domestic abuse in the workplace, by: Engaging with businesses of all sizes and in all sectors, including the Armed Services and Police Forces, in an attempt to change how they think about and react to domestic abuse. Starting the conversation in a bid to raise awareness about
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